Care and kindness

conciliatory
(adj)
cǝn-SILL-ee-ǝ-tor-ee
Meaning

designed to effect reconciliation; designed to bring people back together in friendship after a quarrel

1st Sample Sentence

The morning after our argument, I wrote my friend a brief conciliatory e-mail.

Root

concilium (a meeting, a gathering of people) (Latin)

Mnemonics

The word sounds like CONSOLING, which means soothing.