complete; fully perfected
He is a consummate master of the violin.
com (together)#summa (total number, whole, essence, gist) (Latin)
CONSUME MEAT which is COMPLETELY cooked. Summate means total, totality, something which is complete or perfect if you want to consume your mate (wife), you have to be 'a complete man- raymond' con+summit (the highest point of something) and now imagine a person who has reached the highest point of perfection, is truly a complete man. Only consume things which are complete.